
I’m always on the search for trusting friends. At 63 I realize it’s not that easy, but starting a group of mine gives me the space to add more friends and find those special ones that really care. Our group The Lilly Club is made up of women who have one major thing in common… Lilly Pulitzer. She was an amazing entrepreneur and a good friend to many. That brought us together, but sisterhood keeps us together.
Finding good friends begins with being a good friend.
Inclusion is a gift that costs nothing but holds immense value. When we open our hearts and our circles, we create opportunities for deeper connections and meaningful friendships. Every woman has her own story, beauty, and struggles. By reaching out and joining in, it allows us the chance to learn, grow, and find people who truly enrich our lives.
Good friends make us feel seen, valued and loved. They listen without judgment, support us in our challenges, and celebrate our victories. They do not share what was emotionally shared with you. They show up with kindness and intention, creating a bond built on trust and mutual respect.
As women, we have the power to lead by example, not only for ourselves but for the younger generation watching us. What do we want to teach them? That relationships thrive on kindness, empathy, trust, and inclusivity.
The more we embody those qualities, the more we attract like-minded friends who lift us up and stand by us. Be the woman who listens with love, speaks with compassion, and shows up with loyalty. That’s the foundation of the truest, most beautiful friendships—and for a woman, there’s no greater legacy than that.
Sent with all my love, Barbi
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Well said. It has been difficult finding a new tribe after becoming empty nesters and relocating. I’m so thankful for my Lilly friends who value friendship over competition, and are quick to welcome newcomers into the group.
Thank you for sharing this! ❤️ Transitioning to a new chapter like becoming empty nesters and relocating can be challenging, but it’s so wonderful that you’ve found a supportive and welcoming tribe in our Club. True friendships that prioritize connection over competition are priceless! Here’s to building more beautiful bonds and celebrating the joy of community. #Sisterhood #Friendship